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Terms of Service — Summary
🔞You must be 21 years of age or older to create an account or use Ember.
🤝You agree to treat all users with respect. Harassment, threats, and hate speech will result in a permanent ban.
🌶️Adult or nude content is permitted but must be declared as "spicy" when uploading. Undeclared nudity will result in immediate account removal.
📸You may only upload photos and videos in which you appear. No violent, illegal, or non-consensual content of any kind.
🔒Your contact details are never shared without your explicit consent. We do not sell your data.
🚫Creating fake profiles, scamming, or impersonating others is grounds for immediate removal and may be reported to authorities.
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